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Saturday, November 19, 2011

One of the major perks about being a gay man

Well boys, another summer has come and gone and now the cold weather moves in, forcing us to move in as well. I hope all of you were able to get some great outdoor bating going. Now it's time to break out the sweats and get all cozy by the fire. Or, if you don't have a fireplace...fire up your computer and check out some hot boys to warm you up!

A while ago I made a list (lists are fun to do with friends sometimes, ie: ten hottest guys on TV, Ten hottest movies, etc). This list was "The Top Ten Reasons to be a Gay Man". I can't remember where I put the list, but it had stuff on there like "When you get a boyfriend, you double your wardrobe", and "Guys want sex all the time, there's no woman there to tell you no", and of course "Sword fights!", but the one that I wanna talk about today is perhaps one of the best perks: having access to the men's locker room. I mean, how many straight guys would LOVE to just be able to walk right into the women's locker room and just marvel at all the sights around them? Well, we get to do that...anytime we want. While living in LA sometimes it got a bit out of hand. There were some locker rooms that were more like bath houses. That's not so good. The only kinds of guys those attract are the ones you don't really want to see naked. I'm talking about your local gym locker room, the one where the straight (and not so straight) jocks hang out.


Now that I'm in Denver, the locker rooms are a bit more tame and actually newer...therefore not very conducive to "bath house behavior". In other words, newer gyms are built with todays homophobia in mind. There used to be a time when being naked in locker rooms was commonplace, no big deal. They would have these amazing locker rooms with saunas, steam rooms and Jacuzzis just for men, go with a towel, go without, it didn't matter. HELL, even the YMCA's used to let guys swim in the pool without swimsuits! But today, you would be hard pressed to find a gym locker room that has any of those things in the men's locker room themselves...they are all co-ed (and you almost NEVER catch a woman in the co-ed steam rooms). They have the lockers, the sinks, the bathroom, and the showers...that's it! And more often than not, they'll be personal showers, not the communal showers of the old gyms.

One gym in LA that had these individual showers got so bad that they did away with the opaque curtains (which you would find tiny holes in after only a few days). They were replaced with the translucent ones or the really short ones so you could see who was in there. Now a days, at the newer gyms, these personal showers will have translucent dividers and/or doors as to limit the amount of privacy just enough. But that doesn't seem to stop us ;-)

Yesterday I went to my gym that's close to where I work, it's also close to Capital Hill...the gay area of town. It's a newer gym and gets A LOT of people there. The steam room, jacuzzi and sauna are all co-ed, and the showers have opaque curtains but translucent dividers and are set up with four on one side and four more directly across from them. The shower area is also set apart from the rest of the locker room, so it's private enough to not scare away the jocks, but communal enough to catch an eye full...and yesterday I did JUST that!

As you all know, I'm not shy. I don't usually wrap a towel around myself to walk to the showers, I don't pull my suit down while still wearing the towel...and actually, I enjoy to show it off to whoever wants to look. So communal showers, translucent doors/walls don't bother me either. in fact, I rarely even pull the curtain closed when I shower. I also love to shave at the gym. Since I have to shave my entire head, it's great to soften all the hairs with a good steam and then shave it right away. So I stand at the sink and shave, and those sinks just happen to be IN the locker room, therefore when standing looking in the mirror, you can see all the dudes changing in the reflection. This is actually the best place to take a look at all the hotties, most of which don't bother to shower (whatever!) Yesterday I had the privilege of catching the most beautiful male specimen changing right behind me, perfect in every way, head to toe!

About 5'10" (I like em around my size), buzzed hair, beautiful body - not too buff, not too lean, perfect skin...and when he removed his towel...the biggest cock I've ever seen soft. What I mean by that is that it was perfectly large, some guys have a big soft cock, but it's unusually big, this one was perfect. and it was obvious he was NOT shy about showing it to me. In fact, he kept looking at me while he was naked to make sure I saw it, but not in an overt way.

A little sidebar here: These are the types of guys I love, not just because he's showing off, but because he obviously works hard to look as good as he does, and doesn't bother to hide. I NEVER understood why these beautiful men, who spend the majority of their week in the gym, cover up, change under their towel, never use the shower, etc. It makes NO sense. Maybe they have a small cock, but really, when you look that good, who cares?! If you got it, don't be shy about it!

Anyway, so, this dude slides on a pair of basketball shorts...without any underwear. You know what a soft cock does in this kind of lose material, right? you can see the outline of his cock show thru (btw, my boyfriend loves it when I do this), and his was definitely showing thru. I actually thought he was going to go work out like that, but instead he headed toward the showers.

Luckily I was done shaving, so I quickly packed up my gear and headed into the shower room. He wasn't there. He must have gone to the steam room instead. Sure enough, i found him in there. It was perfect actually, because I like to steam after my shave to open the pours and relieve any razor burn. One thing was for certain though...I wasn't leaving there until he did.

He walked out, I followed, and knew he was heading into the showers. Luckily, there was a stall available right across from his. At this point, I remember seeing the dude in here before, and I KNEW that he never closed the curtain to shower...and I was right. The shorts came off and the water came on and the curtain stayed open. A perfect, brilliant view of the finest male specimen on the planet. I couldn't tell who enjoyed it more, him or me. There were no overt looks, just a glance in my direction, maybe at my cock (which was getting sorta plump), but all very on the DL...but it was clear...he enjoyed me watching him..as well as the guy next to me!

He took his sweet old time too. Soaping himself from head to toe, and always facing out...towards me. (most guys would 1. pull the curtain, and 2. always face the wall) I was having a hard time from completely boning out, I also wasn't too concerned with hiding it. I wanted to let him know I appreciated the little show. I also really liked that it was not overtly sexual. He would rub his cock for me, but only as a guy would in the shower (well maybe a little more) and I didn't get all creepy by going into bate mode (though I kinda wanted to) I just wanted to enjoy it as long as it lasted...and it lasted more than 5 mins. It was incredible.

When he was done, he toweled off (facing me) and then headed into the locker room. I seriously contemplated pulling my curtain closed and jerkin one off, but some creepy guy slipped into the stall next to me who had been cruising the showers for more than a half an hour WITH HIS GLASSES ON!! (ugh! don't get me started). So I hopped out and went in to change clothes.

Luckily, my locker was right behind his and I kept an eye on him. And he didn't stop the show there. When I was shaving he was actually facing in toward his locker, but now that I was behind him, he was facing me to change his clothes. This guy was good, and loving every second. I seriously wanted to take him home with me. We just happened to finish getting dressed at the same time, and yeah, I sort of timed it that way so we could walk out together. I was seriously going to say something to him, but as soon as we got out of the locker room, he took a hard right and headed into the basketball courts. I didn't follow, but man did I have a good wank session last night with that image in mind. It went something like this:

Either him behind me or me behind him...it didn't matter. Hell, even just him standing naked in front of me would have been enough to get me off. It was pure bliss, and I do hope that someday soon (maybe even the same time next week) I hope to give him another opportunity to put on a show for me...even if it never goes further than that.