Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Hey fellas. Today I'd thought I'd share with you a video. This is a video that I made yesterday, in fact, and it pretty much shows me at my utmost bator bliss. Totally gooned out, as some would say. I thought it would be good to add here as it will also give you an idea of what kind of bator I am. It's me, naked, both literally and figuratively. As I said before I pretty much put it all out there, so here it is:
This was an awesome session! Every session is pretty great, don't get me wrong, but you know how some bates are just so amazing? They take you to another place because they feel so good. I was pretty much lost in it for this vid. I had been jerkin for about an hour and a half and edging real good. I started off caming with some buds, then moved on to porn, but really it's the mere fact of being in front of the camera that got me so turned on. My exhibitionism at it's finest.
I post this vid for another reason as well, to talk about verbal guys. I'm pretty verbal, even when I'm by myself, but it really turns me on when I'm with guys that get verbal too. However, there is a fine line. To me there are different types of verbal guys: The ones that barely allow themselves to do it. They just moan and say things like, "Oh yeah", "Mmmm that's good" and stuff like that. Then there are the inbetweeners (this is where I put myself). They go a step beyond and really say what's on their mind like, "Suck my big dick", or, "You want that dick, don't you?". Then there are the dudes that take it one step further and go all-out porno. I don't have to tell you the kinds of things they say, but it's almost to the point to where it takes you out of the mood.
I've gotten into some roll play before, and that requires a little more verbal than I'm used to, but if done right, it can be fun. I just don't want it to get so over the top that it sounds like a cheesy porno. So much so that you feel like you have to keep from laughing. I'm all for talking during sex, in fact I've fallen into every one of these categories at some point, I just ask that you don't mentally take me away from the matters at hand.
I'm not saying there anything wrong with any of these types of verbal guys, I just want to challenge you to push your boundaries a bit. I read somewhere that people who make noises during sex, are happier, more expressive people...so let it out!
I personally don't understand how you can't at least moan while getting off. To me it just feels SO damn good that I don't see how you can't throw your head back, bite your lip, open your mouth and let out a scream. How many of us have seen those vids of dudes jerking off that when they finally reach climax, the just sit there...no convulsing...no noise...no nothing! It boggles my mind. Maybe it stems from the fact that most guys were trained early on (due to circumstances like sharing rooms or afraid of someone next door hearing them) to keep it quiet. That's understandable, but at some point, when you are alone, give it a try. Let it out, give in to the pleasure and I guarantee it will take you to a place you never thought you could get to.
This was an awesome session! Every session is pretty great, don't get me wrong, but you know how some bates are just so amazing? They take you to another place because they feel so good. I was pretty much lost in it for this vid. I had been jerkin for about an hour and a half and edging real good. I started off caming with some buds, then moved on to porn, but really it's the mere fact of being in front of the camera that got me so turned on. My exhibitionism at it's finest.
I post this vid for another reason as well, to talk about verbal guys. I'm pretty verbal, even when I'm by myself, but it really turns me on when I'm with guys that get verbal too. However, there is a fine line. To me there are different types of verbal guys: The ones that barely allow themselves to do it. They just moan and say things like, "Oh yeah", "Mmmm that's good" and stuff like that. Then there are the inbetweeners (this is where I put myself). They go a step beyond and really say what's on their mind like, "Suck my big dick", or, "You want that dick, don't you?". Then there are the dudes that take it one step further and go all-out porno. I don't have to tell you the kinds of things they say, but it's almost to the point to where it takes you out of the mood.
I've gotten into some roll play before, and that requires a little more verbal than I'm used to, but if done right, it can be fun. I just don't want it to get so over the top that it sounds like a cheesy porno. So much so that you feel like you have to keep from laughing. I'm all for talking during sex, in fact I've fallen into every one of these categories at some point, I just ask that you don't mentally take me away from the matters at hand.
I'm not saying there anything wrong with any of these types of verbal guys, I just want to challenge you to push your boundaries a bit. I read somewhere that people who make noises during sex, are happier, more expressive people...so let it out!
I personally don't understand how you can't at least moan while getting off. To me it just feels SO damn good that I don't see how you can't throw your head back, bite your lip, open your mouth and let out a scream. How many of us have seen those vids of dudes jerking off that when they finally reach climax, the just sit there...no convulsing...no noise...no nothing! It boggles my mind. Maybe it stems from the fact that most guys were trained early on (due to circumstances like sharing rooms or afraid of someone next door hearing them) to keep it quiet. That's understandable, but at some point, when you are alone, give it a try. Let it out, give in to the pleasure and I guarantee it will take you to a place you never thought you could get to.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
It's official...I'm bloggin about batin
Hey fellas. I say that as if anyone is actually reading this. It's a brand new blog and I have no followers, but you've got to start somewhere, right? So here goes!
I'm a bator, plain and simple. I love to masturbate, and really who doesn't? If there wasn't such a stigma attached to it, many more people would actually be able to admit it. Although masturbating just when one feels horny, and calling yourself a bator are very different things. Everyone does it, but then there are people like us that make more of it. I sometimes refer to it as an art form. It is a way of expressing yourself, right? It's not just rubbing your cock to get your rocks off. It's taking the time to appreciate the way your cock gets hard, the way it throbs, the oozing of precum, the feeling of wrapping your hand around it and moving it just the right way, up and down, drawing yourself closer to the edge, pulling back, riding the wave until you are ready to release it in a full explosion of warm cum in a way you never thought possible. It's not jerkin off, it's masturbation...it's bating.
So who am I? and what makes me such an expert? Well, years of practice! No, seriously, if that were the case we'd all be experts, and technically we all are, but I'm the type of guy that sets aside time each day (if possible) to appreciate my cock and give it the time it deserves to masturbate, and enjoy it. I'm also not the shy type...as if you haven't guessed already, and I kind of get a kick out of being so open about something so private. It's also my belief that we all SHOULD be more open about it. It's time to end the stigma attached and realize the importance of masturbation and it's benefits in every man's life. So really, this is my own little way of doing just that. I may not be an expert, but I feel like I have a very practical approach to the topic and maybe my ideas and philosophies may resonate with other men. That is my hope at least.
A word about my writing style; It's not going to be perfect in it's grammar and syntax. I may mis-spell words or have huge run on sentences, that's not what's important here. So, for all you grammar Nazis, try to look past that to the thoughts, not the words. I'll do my best to keep it coherent.
I also want to address the thought that I may come across as conceited with all the pics I post of myself. That's not the case. As I said before, I'm an exhibitionist, I like to show off. BUT, I will say that I'm very proud of my dick, as I think most men are, and consider it to be a very "pretty" penis (as some have said to me), so therefore I have no qualms about putting it out there.
Plus with using my photos, I don't have to worry about other people getting upset about me stealing them without permission. Although I do plan on posting pics of other men that I find hot. This is a blog about masturbation, so I not only want talk about it, but inspire it as well.
Like with this:
So there you have it, my first post. I have lot's of topics stored in my brain that I'd love to talk about, but I'm always open to suggestions. Feedback is always appreciated, so comment or leave a message. I'd love to hear from you.
For those of you who want to find other sites I'm on, these are my favorites:
www.bateworld.com as Big Stiffy
www.dudesnude.com/members/13256
www.xtube.com as Big_Stiffy
Until next time...happy bating.
I'm a bator, plain and simple. I love to masturbate, and really who doesn't? If there wasn't such a stigma attached to it, many more people would actually be able to admit it. Although masturbating just when one feels horny, and calling yourself a bator are very different things. Everyone does it, but then there are people like us that make more of it. I sometimes refer to it as an art form. It is a way of expressing yourself, right? It's not just rubbing your cock to get your rocks off. It's taking the time to appreciate the way your cock gets hard, the way it throbs, the oozing of precum, the feeling of wrapping your hand around it and moving it just the right way, up and down, drawing yourself closer to the edge, pulling back, riding the wave until you are ready to release it in a full explosion of warm cum in a way you never thought possible. It's not jerkin off, it's masturbation...it's bating.
So who am I? and what makes me such an expert? Well, years of practice! No, seriously, if that were the case we'd all be experts, and technically we all are, but I'm the type of guy that sets aside time each day (if possible) to appreciate my cock and give it the time it deserves to masturbate, and enjoy it. I'm also not the shy type...as if you haven't guessed already, and I kind of get a kick out of being so open about something so private. It's also my belief that we all SHOULD be more open about it. It's time to end the stigma attached and realize the importance of masturbation and it's benefits in every man's life. So really, this is my own little way of doing just that. I may not be an expert, but I feel like I have a very practical approach to the topic and maybe my ideas and philosophies may resonate with other men. That is my hope at least.
A word about my writing style; It's not going to be perfect in it's grammar and syntax. I may mis-spell words or have huge run on sentences, that's not what's important here. So, for all you grammar Nazis, try to look past that to the thoughts, not the words. I'll do my best to keep it coherent.
I also want to address the thought that I may come across as conceited with all the pics I post of myself. That's not the case. As I said before, I'm an exhibitionist, I like to show off. BUT, I will say that I'm very proud of my dick, as I think most men are, and consider it to be a very "pretty" penis (as some have said to me), so therefore I have no qualms about putting it out there.
Plus with using my photos, I don't have to worry about other people getting upset about me stealing them without permission. Although I do plan on posting pics of other men that I find hot. This is a blog about masturbation, so I not only want talk about it, but inspire it as well.
Like with this:
So there you have it, my first post. I have lot's of topics stored in my brain that I'd love to talk about, but I'm always open to suggestions. Feedback is always appreciated, so comment or leave a message. I'd love to hear from you.
For those of you who want to find other sites I'm on, these are my favorites:
www.bateworld.com as Big Stiffy
www.dudesnude.com/members/13256
www.xtube.com as Big_Stiffy
Until next time...happy bating.
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