Buddy Bate

Hey fellas, it's been WAY too long since my last post. I'm sorry it's took so long. No other excuse except that I got a new job and my focus had to shift for a while, but I'm back and ready to bate! So, to make up for all this time I've been gone, I thought I'd start us off with a video:

This is me and my boyfriend having fun, showing off for the camera. I tell you, there is nothing like being bated from behind like this. It's my favorite position of all time. You can still kiss (which is a HUGE turn on while being bated) and the feel of the other dudes hands all over you as he's working your dick is amazing. I love the feel of hands running over my chest. For some reason that area is very erogenous for me. This position is also very good for that as well. As you can tell, I really enjoy it! And so does my boyfriend, as you can see.

My boyfriend making me cum

Even though masturbation is pretty much considered a solo act, there is nothing like the buddy bate. Maybe because of the fact that masturbating is usually so private, that sharing that experience with a bud makes it all the more exciting. Some may think, "jerkin off with someone else is lame, why would I want to watch someone do that and jerk myself off when I can do that at home alone". Well, that couldn't be more wrong. Buddy bating is not just jerkin yourself off while another guy is present, it's sharing in the masturbation experience with someone else. It's rubbing their dick the way you would rub your own. It's getting the feeling of masturbation without having to do it yourself. And correct me if I'm wrong, but to me, getting mastrubated by someone else feels 5 times better than you doing it yourself (IF you get the right person doing the job). Bating someone while they are bating you, taking turns bating each other, comparing, cock worshiping, or just watching each other enjoy themself...that is all part of the buddy bate.

Here's me with a buddy that came into town recently
comparing size. Not sure who won this one

Sure it's great to do other things while you are naked with someone. Oral, anal, those are all fine and dandy, but bating together is my all time favorite. I can't help it, I'm a bator. The look of another man's hand around my cock turns me on so much. Also the feeling of holding another man's dick is so powerful and...awesome. Having that kind of control over him. He's surrendered to you and just has one thing on his mind. You get to make him feel good...you get to make him feel amazing...YOU have control over that. Yeah, I love it.

Me with a friend enjoying the mutual bate

If one-on-one bating with a buddy is this much fun, then throw in a few more of your buds and you have a party! Have you ever been to a JO club? For us bators, it's the best! I started one in my living room many years ago. Me and a bate bud started gathering this group of friends that loved to bate together and it sort of grew from there. We'd get together every now and then, strip down, watch some porn, and get each other off...share in the bate....group bate! I once had about 20 guys in my living room, naked, hard, jerkin off...it was amazing. Soon the group became a lot to manage and another guy came along and started a bigger group called Angel City Jacks (if you are in LA you need to know about this group) He secured a location at a local S&M club that lets him rent it out a couple days a month, and on those nights it becomes the "Jack Shack" as he calls it. It's grown a lot and usually attracts more than 30 guys. What a blast! If you haven't experienced this kind of group JO, or any kind of JO club, seek it out, make yourself go, you won't regret it. There are several in many different cities that provide a safe, clean, fun atmosphere where local like-minded men can gather and share in the bate. New York Jacks has a very comprehensive list of JO clubs across the country: http://www.nyjacks.com/ check it out under the link "Other JO Clubs and links"

Until next time, find a buddy and enjoy the bate....together!