Please Stop Shaving Your Pubes Off

OK Fellas, this installment has me putting out a plea. For all you guys that think it looks good to shave your pubes completely bare...PLEASE stop. Look, I'm not a guy that's into man hair, or bears or anything like that, I just want my men to look like MEN, not boys. I don't really care for a huge bush either. Trim it up, manscape it, but don't take it all the way down to the skin. Plus, you get that annoying, itchy stubble that you have to maintain. It just doesn't make any sense to me.

Like this guy, totally cute, but the fact that he has no hair down there looks so strange to me. Usually I love a shot of a guy squatting down naked like this, but I would just click right past this one. Maybe it's something about the way the skin folds down, or how you can see that dimple just above the cock.

If there were a speech bubble coming from this guys head it would read, "Hey, where'd my pubes go??". Most of the time these big muscle guy types shave their whole bodies, and ya know, I can almost go with that. Shaved chests are ok (except when you get all that stubble), they look fine because some guys have hairless chests naturally, but find me a guy that naturally has no pubes. If you shave yourself from chest to toe (which I don't recommend) then yes, you must shave the pubes. This is just about the only way it makes sense to do so, but MAN, think of the maintenance.

Now this one, I think, best proves my point. At least the last guy shaved everything, this guy has these great hairy legs, but then there is that sharp line where the hair just stops. It's ridiculous. Click on the picture to see the larger version to get a better idea of how weird it looks. Once you start shaving your pubes, where do you stop?? You have to go and do your balls, your taint, your ass, your crack...all the way down to your freakin ankles!

And DON'T get me started on guys that leave a small little patch there...a landing strip...like WOMEN do. I mean come on, I'd rather you just shave it all off.

We all know that a big bush can take about an inch off your dick, like the guy above. He's wonderfully hairy, but that bush is out of control. Trimming the hedges would certainly make his dick look bigger, especially when soft. So do that, clean it up, just don't sweep it all away.

I'd love to take a trimmer to this guy. He's got a big cock, but all that hair doesn't let him show it off. Imagine how much bigger (and cleaner) he'd look with all that cut back, and even though he's got a naturally smooth chest, it would look more natural to not be that hairy down there. Though, going too far and shaving it all off would look unnatural.

I know some guys are gonna gripe. They like the smooth look. Some will even say that the big bush is the way to go. We all have our tastes and/or fetishes. I'm also not advocating the overly maintained look. All I'm asking is that when you are standing in front of me naked that you look like you don't spend hours shaving, plucking and pruning your entire body. I want to think, "Damn he's hot" and not, "I wonder how long it takes him to get it to look like that". There is a way to maintain your body hair to where no one would think twice about it not naturally being like that.

I love to rub my hands through the pubes and chest hair. Maybe it is the fact that it's just so masculine. Men get hair all over, it's a fact, don't hide it, celebrate it.

This handsome devil is all smooth up top, but then has that nice nest of hair starting around the belly button and down around his cock and legs. If he tried to shave that off he'd have to do his legs too (which are totally sexy with that hair) and what guy wants to shave his legs? He could maybe use just a bit of trim, but please don't take too much away.

How hot is this hunk of yumminess? Nicely trimmed pubes are a great compliment to those pits and legs. He may shave his chest, but who cares, one can assume it's natural for him to not have hair there.

I'll leave you today with this fuckin HOT stud. To me, he's perfectly hairy, the chest, the arms, the pubes, he's just the epitome of MALE. This guy was gonna be the leader of my next "Dudes that get me hard" post. He looks so Italian, and that is one of my biggest weaknesses. The jet black hair, the lighter skin, the hair, the big dick...take me now!

I know reading my ramblings is not gonna make you stop shaving your privates, but maybe it'll make you think twice when you reach for the razor, and maybe make you reach for the trimmers instead.

Lube it, or lose it

If you are a bator, then that usually means you like to jerk off for more than an hour or so. Can you imagine rubbing the skin of your cock for that long without any lubrication? I know I can't, but I'm circumsized and don't have any lose skin to help alleviate some of the friction. I do precum, but not enough to last as long as I need it to. Therefore lube is a very important part of my bate regime. I love it! It feels 10 times better with lube, and it makes it so I can make it last for as long as I need to. The challenge, therefore, is finding a lube that can last as long as I can. I've tried a lot of lubes in my day, from lotion to water based to oil based, but in the end there is only one hands-down winner in the great lube debate...Albolene.

I call it the lube of champions, and rightfully so, if you ever ask a true bator what lube he uses, it'll be Albolene. It's pretty much how you can separate the men from the boys. If you see this little jar next to someone's bed, you know he's a bator. It's marketed as a makeup remover, so you won't find it in any sex shop, so really the only way guys find out about it is by word of mouth. A stroke buddy of mine introduced it to me many years ago and I never looked back. Since then I've introduced so many men to it, that I should take out some stock in the company. It's so great that I usually have two bottles on hand in the house at all times, and always take one with me when I travel, and one of the best parts about it, if anyone finds it, they don't know it's lube. Though you may have to explain why you have make up remover in your bag.

So why is it so great? There are many reasons, but the main one is that it's oil based. It lasts forever and never gets sticky. I've jerked off for 2 hours or more without having to reapply, and for me, that is best reason to use it. But like I said, there are so many good things about this lube, for example: You don't have to go to an embarrassing sex shop to buy it. You can find it anywhere you find Noxema products (Walgreens, Rite Aid, etc.) and it only costs $11 a jar, and that jar will last you at least 3 months! and that's with bating at least once a day! You can't beat that! Also, since it's a moisturizing cleanser, when you are done, you simply wipe it off with a towel and you come out clean...and it won't dry out your skin.

Now, no lube is perfect, there are some things that some may not like about it. Some just simply don't like oil based lubes that you can't just wash off. In fact, if you try Albolene, it's important to know you WIPE it off with a towel first, then you can wash with soap and water. If you try to wash it off first, it won't be pretty. Also, if you get it on your sheets or couch, it could leave an oil based stain, so you have to be careful where it goes.

PLEASE NOTE: Albolene is never to be used with condoms! As with any oil based lube, it will eat away at latex. That's why this is the lube for bating!

Are you convinced yet? :-) I told you, I should work for the company. Albolene is my best friend.

Notice the blue and white jar by my side

I understand that not every dude is into using lube, especially those with foreskin, but for me, it's a must. I need the slip and slide or my skin just gets all raw...and basically is just doesn't feel as good. In fact, it's kind of a deal breaker if you wanna jerk off with me and you don't use lube. I don't really know how to jerk off a guy without lube. You know what I'm talking about, right? The guys that do the grab and jerk instead of the slide and glide. The guys that pull the skin with their stroke instead of sliding over it. I just can't do it. This mainly happens with uncut guys, therefore it's pretty rare for me to jerk off with them. Snobby, maybe, but it's just my experience that they just don't know how to jerk me off, and vice versa.

Give me lube, or give me death! I'll even take my jar with me if I fear the guy doesn't have the right kind. Don't get me wrong, I'll use any kind of lube over not using any, but if I wanna have a rockin good time...it'll be Albolene....always. And how hot does your dick look when it's all greased up!?

Yeah, I even brought my jar to my Choasmen photo/video shoot. Look how greasy I am. LOVE it!

So the moral of the story here, fellas...lube it up, keep it greasy, and enjoy it for hours. If you haven't tried Albolene, do it, you won't regret it. If you can't find it in your local store, order it online. Trust me, you'll never go back to the sex shop lube ever again.

Dudes that get me hard

Hey fellas, welcome to the first installment of "Dudes That Get Me Hard". Essentially, I'll be posting some pics of guys that really turn me on, collected during my moments of bating while surfing for porn. It will definitely give you an idea of the kinds of guys that I go for and the kind of scenarios that get me off.

When I sit down for a good long bate session, I usually start off with going thru pics in my email. I have a gmail account that I only use for porn. I sign up for picture sharing groups in yahoo and they just fill up my box with pages and pages of hot naked men. This usually progresses to videos but I always start off with pics. Here are some that I picked out to share with you guys.

This is a great way to start if off, right? I love Fratmen.com. They have SO many hot guys on that site that are just my type. Jocks, frat boys, muscle guys...really do it for me. This guy is just about perfect. I dig guys with dark hair and light eyes...and well, that body, come on! His cock is beautiful and I really LOVE those "David lines", I call them. That V shape that runs from the hips to the cock...SO hot.

LOVE the look on this guys face! He's so lost in the bate. Those arms are gorgeous, and seeing a dude with his hand wrapped so firmly around his dick is such a major turn on.

Jerkin off in front of the window...yes, please! Being an exhibitionist myself, it turns me on to see a man so eager to show off. I had a bedroom that faced a parking lot, and some nights I'd post on Craigslist that I'd be jerking off in the window. Guys would come by and watch...it was so fuckin hot.

Beautiful biceps and big dicks, a winning combination. Even soft, that cock is gorgeous, and I love the way he's lookin down at it. I even like his pale skin. Bring it on, buddy!

There's nothing like being naked outside! I used to LOVE going to the nude beach when I lived in Los Angeles. Walking along the beach wearing nothing but a smile was just so amazing. This guy and this setting are also amazing. I mean, who wouldn't shuck all their clothes and work up a good boner if you were all alone out here?

Ok, now let's talk about two guys together, sittin on the bed, naked and hard, helping each other out. LOVE IT! and the fact that they have their hands around each other dicks...so awesome. Love bating with a buddy.

I fuckin LOVE this picture. This is one of my all time favorite positions to bate with a buddy. I love to just lay back into him and have him wrap his hands around me and jerk my cock all damn day! Kissin my neck, rubbing my chest, all the while working my cock in a position so natural for him. In fact, it gives you a great idea how he jerks his own dick.

Another awesome "from behind" position.

Big cumshots are another HUGE turn on for me. I love it when the camera captures this amazing moment. The farther you can shooth, the hotter it is. Guys that can hit the wall behind them make me weak in the knees. I wish the dude shootin his load in this pic looked more into it, but I like the pic because he's with his buddy there, shooting a huge load in front of him. Yeah, it's the show off in me.

Speaking of showing off!! I totally dig this shot, not only are they outside, but the dude whipin out his dick to show his buddy, and the look on his buddies face...really do me in! I also love it when a dudes erection points straight up like that...he just looks so turned on...and showin off like that to your bud can really do that to ya!

That's it for now, fellas. I hope these pics turned you on as much as they did me. I was totally rock hard the entire time posting and writing about them. Please excuse me now as I go work my dick in a nice long bate session. Hopefully I'll find more pics that I can share with you next time. Until then, keep on strokin.